Roses From Bob
December 11th, 2009
Archive
Archive for the ‘dating’ Category
How To Be A Gentleman
December 9th, 2009
First Dates: Top Red Flags that Your Date Stinks
November 24th, 2009
Love this girls; www.tmiweekly.com
Why Women Control Sex?
November 8th, 2009
Some women control sex to test if a man will stick around despite. If men control sex, women dump them.
Tired of Being Single During Those Days
September 24th, 2009
A small confession from Julia Allison on Vimeo.
Crying During Sex
September 2nd, 2009
From Julia Allison’s website
Ask any man about women crying during sex and you’ll get a strange reaction.
First, there’s The Blank Stare – they have no idea what you’re talking about.
Then there’s the silence, which lasts … and lasts … enough time for you to rethink the three glasses of champagne you had before you brought up the damn topic.
Just as you’re planning an escape route, he gives you this look – like you’ve somehow seen into his bedroom, circa high school. He’s astounded. “Once,” he says. Or maybe “Yeah, twice, it was weird.”
The confusion is palpable. He still has no idea what happened.
I swear, I’ve had the exact same conversation with dozens of guys – all ages, all types. Sometimes I try to piece together the story.
Me: “What did you do after she started crying?”
Him: “Nothing. I just lay there.”
Me: “umm … okay. Did she say anything?”
Him: “Yep, she rolled over and said, ‘I love you.’”
Ah-ha!
continue reading at;
http://julia.nonsociety.com/lifecast/176876259
Life Mystery Solved. Two Out of Three Theory
August 8th, 2009
Most people always wonder why can’t they understand the opposite sex. There is a theory I have developed after three years of scientific research, countless interviews with psychologists and whiskeys and coke.
Two Out of Three Theory
Before we are born we get to choose two options out of three; Looks, Brains or Penis
This explains;
- Why we guys could be devilish handsome but not too smart
- Women don’t understand guys
- Why Men have body hair
- Why women have evolved and adapt faster than men
- Why women can multitask
- Why men can’t talk emotions or lie, I mean know how to lie
Definition of a Real Man
July 15th, 2009
1. A married man that once he gets divorced doesn’t belong to that category
2. The opposite of a dildo
3. A Bratt Pitt look alike with tons of money that has no eyes but for the woman who is looking for a “real man”
4. A man who keeps changing his personality at the request of a woman until he doesn’t know who he is
5. A man with a job who listens and does not watch sports and doesn’t have a penis
6. A man who can read woman’s mind and act accordingly
Why Women Lie
July 9th, 2009
“Men lie the most, women tell the biggest lies” – Chris Rock
She Aikido Lies to you
Once, I dated a woman who said she doesn’t like people lying to her because she doesn’t lie. Instead of lying she will avoid answering the question or ask me back what do I think. She will also say; “I don’t want to talk about” and dismiss me.
Cute!! I always wondered if she thought I was that stupid so I lied my pants on fire about a bunch of bull shit. Well, can you blame me?
She is horny but won’t admit it
Society puts a lot of pressure on women. How they are suppose to behave, what they are suppose to do, and even what they are suppose to feel. Will a woman stand up and say; “I’m horny and just want you to take me to the back of a high school and do the dirty, dirty”? Probably, not.
It is only after they have reached their thirties that they realize they don’t have to lie about been superficial about their need for a very good hanky panky or a whats-that-a-hurricane type of sex.
She doesn’t trust you
Most women will say that this is actually the main reason for why they lie because … let’s admit it, it is our fault no matter how you as a guy want to see it.
She may have information she considers sensitive and isn’t sure whether to tell you about it. If you don’t know each other well yet, this could be a legitimate lie to protect others’ interests. As such, it should be seen as a relatively loyal gesture toward those she’s protecting. However, if you’re well into your relationship and she’s still hiding all sorts of information from you, she might have major trust issues.
She’s manipulative
Sometimes a liar justifies herself by saying that she only embellished the truth. Some people can win arguments and influence people just by emphasizing the right points — without really lying. On the other hand, she may lie outright in order to control the way you think or feel (typical woman’s behavior). If she tells white lies to win arguments or to twist you around her finger, you should watch out, because manipulation is a powerful tool.
Wait until she starts controlling sex. Manipulation is a bitch!!
She doesn’t want you to worry
If you’re concerned about that male coworker she’s been spending so much time with, she might lie about the time they spend together. This doesn’t mean that there’s anything going on (cough, cough !); she’s just doing what she wants without having you fret about it. How considered …
Him – “Honey what are you doing having sex with him?” -
Her – “It is nothing. I didn’t tell you because I didn’t want to hurt you but what is important is where my heart is and my heart is with you”. -
She’s testing you
My favorite. If she’s unsure of your temperament or intentions, she might try to test the waters. She could tell you a false story about a past relationship to see how you react. She might tell you her best friend thinks you’re cute to see if your eye wanders. This type of testing is meant to catch the bad guys before they get too close.
Remember; women give you drama to see if you can handle it. It is a unconscious mental challenge for them. Never loose or change who you are just to please someone. Make a real attempt to find your inner self and then change. Consider others’ opinions and read from the experts.
Women will love you if change for them and then they want more.
She wants to keep the upper hand
She might withhold information to maintain a sense power over you. For instance, if a mutual friend tells her something important, she may keep it from you so that she has the inside scoop. Or she might just keep things from you to keep you at a disadvantage; that way, she can pick and choose what to tell you and when.
Final Thought
In summary, men are bad liers because women are so freaking good at it.
Reference: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_150/167_dating_girl.html
Why Men Don’t Open Emotionally?
June 30th, 2009
Most women build up everything they’re thinking inside until they have to let it out in one big emotional release. And guess what men see when this happens? No, they don’t see how much you care or love them and how amazing it is that you want to be with them. Somehow instead of seeing the good and the positive intentions you have, they see intense negative emotions that they can’t understand.
And men get scared of emotions that are really intense or that they don’t understand. Men aren’t used to emotions. When you share your feelings and want to know his feelings for you, he freaks out. He either becomes;
- the “deer-in-headlights” guy or
- the “angry-frustrated-scared” guy
Most women do what makes sense in this situation – they push and encourage the man to talk, to get in touch with his feelings and to share HER feelings. But men don’t see it as positive encouragement. They see it as you being “over-emotional” and pushy about the issue.
The WORST mistakes you can make are;
- Assuming – that he knows what you want or expect
- Begging – for him to “give you” what you want
- Convincing – trying to make him feel the way you do
- Bullying – bullying him into your way of thinking or feeling
- Ask for his deepest, darkest secret
Would you, as a woman, feel great if he tries to teach you how to play football and he bullies and assumes you should be fine with been hit to the floor within the first 10 minutes of the game? Probably not. That is exactly how it feels.
Also, remember that women will test a guy’s character and pull him into the emotional zone just to see if he can handle it. Some women are not even interested on the guy or have already made up their mind about breaking up with him and KNOW he will react this way. Then, they say; “I broke up with him because he did not understand my emotions”
The female brain is so complex and works in so many deceptive ways. Beautiful!!
Why Guys Don’t Call
June 29th, 2009
One of the ethernal questions about men’s behavior. Recently, like I always do, I made it about me. Yes, why do I do the things I do. It is NOT someone else’s fault but mine. I have decided to go on the difficult task of explain why men do the things they do. No, it is not just sex what drive us. Other reasons will be uncovered in this Pachanga Diaries series; Undertanding Why Men Are Jerks
Why Guys Don’t Call
Like women, guys also send missignals and miscommunicate. Different from women guys, won’t test your character just to see if you can handle it (tricky women). In an attempt to be considered and polite most guys will try not to be jerks and handle situations with a minial confrontation.
- That is fine but we had the best time during our date, and then he doesn’t call - you might be thinking.
If the women is looking for something more serious than what he wants, they probably won’t call.
- Wait a minute !! Women have done this to me too – . Exactly, it is called “You are fun but not serious enough” syndrome.
Are we really that different? Discover the reason behind;
Why did he go back to his ex when things were going well?
In tomorrow’s episode of “Why are Men Jerks” series
Coming Up
- Why doesn’t he open emotionally?
- Why he never makes plans?
- Why is he obsessed with me after I have broken up with him?
Any other questions? Please, ask in the comment box below
Signs of Passive Aggressive Behavior
April 26th, 2009
The book Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man lists 11 responses that may help identify passive-aggressive behavior. [2]
- Ambiguity or speaking cryptically: a means of engendering a feeling of insecurity in others
- Chronically being late and forgetting things: another way to exert control.
- Fear of competition
- Fear of dependency
- Fear of intimacy as a means to act out anger: The passive aggressive often can’t trust. Because of this, they guard themselves against becoming intimately attached to someone.
- Making chaotic situations
- Making excuses
- Obstructionism
- Sulking
- Victimization response: instead of recognizing one’s own weaknesses.
A passive-aggressive person may not have all of these behaviors, and may have other non-passive-aggressive traits.
Reference : http://www.wikipedia.com
Image source : http://www.passiveaggressivenotes.com/
Recent Comments